English band releases song featuring acerbic observation of UK/US cultural difference

Frisona will be playing at a modestly-sized venue in Tokyo, but they also plan to visit Tokyo Dome during their trip.

On the eve of their whistle stop tour of Japan, Frisona, a young English band hailing from a provincial town in Upper Clackershire, look set for a big year with the release of their new song, “Across the Atlantic”. The band sat down with me over some pints of rather foul, dark beer and discussed how they are feeling about touring the states in the near future.

Lead singer Oliver Meadows said he was nervous about whether American audiences would “get” the sarcastic tones contained in the lyric, “You can keep your diner, coz we’ve got our greasy spoon,” which is repeated a dozen times in the new release.

Frisona never tour without their very own scone lady, who is under strict instructions to serve them with the cream on top of the jam.

Says Oliver, “The song is actually the title track of our new album, and it’s a commentary on the Americanization of our homeland, which has been going on since the dawn of time. Sting kind of came up with the blueprint by singing about a bloke preferring tea to coffee. We are adding a whole lot more to that. Do you know, for example, how hard it is to find traditionally prepared jellied eel these days?”

Bass player Jimmy Alexander chimed in with his view on jumping aboard the Star Spangled Express. “I’m sorry to tell you this, America, but not everyone wants to drink Coca-Cola and eat a cheeseburger. What’s all the fuss about French fries anyway? Just give me a portion of chips with some battered fish, and I’ll pay for that in English pounds too, thank you very much. One thing’s for sure; you won’t find me wearing a baseball cap backwards and mumbling “What’s up?” to people as a way of greeting them in the morning.”

During arduous tours Frisona prefer to have their jellied eel procured from traditional establishments and flown across the world first-class whenever possible.

Given a sneak preview of some songs on the album, I was treated to a tapestry of jangly guitar pop with references to English stuff like going upstairs on a double decker bus, betting on greyhound races while chewing salted pork fat, and yomping in nature with the Territorial Army.

Try as I might, I was unable to coax the rest of the album out of the band. but apparently it features stuff about over-boiled vegetables, policing the streets of Burma, and an often-repeated conversation between two eccentric West End thespians in the tea room at Ealing Studios in 1973.

The rush is on to get on board during rush hour

Commuters preparing for an enjoyable journey on the Tozai Line

“My mother and two of my junior high school teachers used to tell me that I was clever, and that I had so many interesting ideas,” says 32 year old Tokyo resident Jasper Watson.  “I guess this tour shows that they were right.”  

Watson is referring to his enormously popular Tokyo subway tour, which began during the waning days of the Covid Scare.  While other tours focus on temples, shrines, and traditional culture, Watson’s tour plunges into the heart of rush hour, giving visitors a taste of commuter hell on the Tozai Line on weekday mornings.

An Indian would probably climb up on the roof

“It’s kind of like those restaurants in France where you dine with the expectation of being insulted.  Some people want others to cough directly into their face or have their buttocks clutched roughly.  Sure, some people get freaked out, but some sign up to do it all again the next day,” grins the cocky Canadian, who was fired from his English teaching job due to chronic tardiness three years ago.   “Some of the female commuters can’t leave my black customers alone.  They want to squeeze, rub, and even poke their backsides like one of those jelly ball stress removers.  Half of my customers get freaked out and get off at the next station, but the other half come back the next day for second helpings.”

Watson points out that, despite putting in zero capital input for his tour, there are still truckloads of day-to-day worries.  “I have to constantly tell the Scandinavian customers to ease off on the chat.  Tourists speaking English at high volume is bad enough because it brings back memories of annoying ESL teachers who thought they were cool and spent lots of time with the girls in the classroom.  I’ve found, however, that languages like Finnish or Swedish can really get up people’s noses on the train.  I don’t know why, but they set people off.

Tourists take a deep breath after they escape the subway crush.

Bureaucracy usually has a way of involving itself in any tourism related business, but so far Watson hasn’t had anybody turn up unannounced at his door. “As far as officialdom is concerned, I don’t have a license but, then again, the authorities never envisaged this kind of tour.  That’s how out-of-the-box my ideas are.  I guess that makes me the kind of person that the authorities can’t reach.  I’m comfortable with that label, by the way.  It suits me.

“Some people ask me why these foreign tourists can’t simply get on the subway themselves without paying extra for the tour. Those kind of people have no sense of economic opportunity and would never ever have a business dream.  That’s what separates us.  These tourists are prepared to pay extra to guarantee that they are guided directly into ground zero.  Some of them will never come back to Japan.  Generally, they only get one chance, so they want an expert to get them into the thick of things.

Commuters try to get as comfortable as possible during their journey.

“It’s not all bad news on the Tozai Line.  Many of my customers are pleasantly surprised to see cute students on their way to Waseda University.  These young ladies really shine like roses in a swamp, and they offer a glimmer of hope amongst the young working men that perhaps one such beautiful woman will be come to work in their department in the near future. That won’t happen though.”

The tour, says Watson, has come along in leaps and bounds since the early days.  Tour participants now receive laminated cards at the beginning of the tour to enable them to understand what is being said around them.  “My customers appreciate being able to quickly comprehend common insults and complaints.  I get some real masochists too, who delight in hearing that their level of hygiene doesn’t  meet the generally accepted Tokyo standards.”

こんにちは、お兄様達

Watson is aware of the need to conduct his a subway with minimal impact. “Right now I’m just focusing on reminding my customers to dress appropriately on the subway. They need to show consideration for others while having a cheap holiday in someone else’s misery. That’s why I tell the overweight westerners not to wear such figure-hugging clothes.  It’s demoralising for workers to start the day having to see all that flab,” he explains with a shake of the head.

“I’m conducting tours every day and the outlook is pretty good.  The platform attendants know me, and I even get a little bow from them regularly.  They know who I am, and they know that I’m a considerate, respectful, and responsible guy, and I’m sure that they remind each other of that when they chat about their favourite commuters. But, I’m not stopping with this tour. I’ve also got big plans to start manhole cover tours. The Italians, in particular, go crazy for the sewerage related infrastructure. Although, to be honest, they’re amazed whenever they see public infrastructure that thieves haven’t run off with.”

Long-term jaded Tokyo resident still comfortable drinking in Golden Gai

Shinjuku Golden Gai… looking pretty underwhelming during daylight hours.

“How long did you say you’ve lived here?  17 years!?”  It was a question many a tourist has asked 45 year old Rob Petraglia.  “Wow!  You must really love Japan!” gushed the 21 year old Australian backpacker sitting next to him.  Petraglia, perhaps unable to find the enthusiasm to match his temporary buddy, nodded wistfully and let out a slightly audible, “…… Yeah…”

Long-term foreign residents of Japan typically find their niche after a few years.  For some it will be hiking in the mountains or cycling the isolated country roads.  There will even be the odd outdoor enthusiast who will develop a following online, with westerners hungry for unique perspectives of a land that they yearn to visit.  For Petraglia, however, the metropolis of Tokyo still manages to keep the slightest flame of a desire to live from dying out inside.

A brightly lit, yet lonely place during Covid.

The divorced Canadian, with two anchor children living in a Saitama house with his unstable ex-wife, has found that Golden Gai is the one Japanese cultural area that he still frequents.  All the reasons he had for loving Japan a decade ago have disappeared from his life, except Golden Gai.  Now, although overrun with short-stayers, Petraglia clings to the place like an entitled beaver clings to its mother, unable to comprehend that it’s overstayed its welcome.

“I live in a 1DK studio apartment in Kita ku and the walls can close in from time to time.  I drink in Akabane, Oji, and Golden Gai.  That’s my monthly rotation,” he explained.  “Once a month I’ll stay at home to save money and I’ll just spend most of the weekend picking fights on social media.

Let the mingling begin.

“When I first came to Golden Gai, the bars didn’t have English menus, and everything felt like a Masumura movie featuring Ayako Wakao, but not the one where she has an affair with another woman.  No, it wasn’t like that.  It was more like one of the other Ayako Wakao movies where she plays another kind of highly emotional character.  Sure, the place lacks that Showa vibe now, but I still come here because I don’t have anything better to do.

“Hot springs are wonderful and the volcanoes are amazing.  I’ve been there and done that. I even once considered exploring Gunkanjima,” he mutters while staring into his beer. “I never followed through on that plan though. There are some who long to take photos of those crumbling buildings, or a wild tanuki, or even a wild tanuki moving through those old buildings. Then they want to bathe in instagram glory for a few days.  That’s not me though.

Ayako Wakao testing her man’s kindness, patience, and gullibility.

“Some people have accused me of failing to move on to things more appropriate for my age.  And, while it’s true that all I do is get blitzed like I did when I was twenty years younger, I find that I don’t mind mingling with tourists half my age who talk about bands that I’ve never heard of, and have no desire to listen to,” he states in a moment of remarkable self-reflection.

“You won’t find me trying to find yet another Tottoro-style country vista.  I can guarantee you that.  While those outdoor types are discovering delightfully refreshing mountain streams, I’ll either be at a bar or in my apartment watching hockey and calculating how many more paychecks it’ll be until my youngest kid graduates from high school.”

Pressure builds as Aussie skiers overuse anal showers

Aussies are being encouraged to spend more time on the slopes and less time on the crapper.

Hotel owner Ketsu Kitsui is facing higher costs and, after a great deal of analysis, he’s finally found something that he can put his finger on; Australian backsides.  The issues of rising costs of food, energy and wages are presenting great challenges to hotels and pensions throughout Japan. Reports suggest guest numbers grew in 2022 and again in 2023/24 winter, however such growth is being spanked by soaring inflation and general business expenses.

Kitsui, who owns a hotel in the ski fields of Toyama, explained the reason behind his major problem.  “Australia is a land of three minute showers.  That means that when they come here, they get a bit cheeky with the free water.  In particular, they’ll sit on the toilet watching cricket on their laptops while they have water spraying their rectums.  And, as you know, cricket games go on forever.

For many people test cricket is a complete bore, but fans say that there can sometimes be buttock-clenching tension in the game.

“These Australian guests love getting their bumholes jet-washed.  Word of mouth has spread faster than a mooning teenager’s bumcheeks, and now we’re fixed with ever-increasing water and electricity bills.  We’re happy that the Aussies are behaving in a hygienic way.  For too long they’ve been pushed into the great unwashed category with the English.  It’s good to see them escaping from that stereotype, and they’ve helped us to zero in on an untapped area of the market.”

Katai Unchi, another hotel owner, agreed wholeheartedly with his business rival, “We’re concerned about all these cracks.  Cracks have been appearing in our business model.  We are used to being in the black, but it’s looking grim now, like we’re staring into a nasty looking crevasse.”  Unchi, who wears an eye-patch following a near fatal collision on the slopes five years ago, knows that tough times are here.  As I looked deeply into his dark brown eye, I was able to understand just how tight things had become.

Guests can even listen to Olivia Newton-John while taking a snap.

“Grapes are being affected too,” he continued.  “We like to have a complimentary bunch placed on bedside stools in the rooms as a welcoming gift, but we may be forced to stop this practice.  Inflation has led to higher prices across the board.  The cost of our entire cafe selection, things like date fingers, chocolate starfish, and fruity buns have been pumped up recently. 

“Once we had piles of cash in the office, piles just sitting around, somethings being blown around when the backdoor was left open.  Not anymore though.  We really have copped a lot of punishment lately.  Our power bills had bottomed out thanks to LED lighting, but they’ve slowly reared up due to this Aussie trend for clean clackers.”

The traditional J-toilet. Is it Shinjuku Station or Matsudo Keirin? You be the judge!

In addition to the economic uncertainty,  communication problems still arise due to pronunciation errors.  “The vocab and grammar can be picked up with just a little commitment, but pronunciation can be tough.  The Japanese r’s can be a handful to deal with,” said Di Ariah, owner of a Hakuba snowboarding school.  Her number two, Con Stipatis, explained that some words require a delicate roll of the tongue, “so the little Japanese r’s can take time to come to grips with.”

The balancing act continues; how to conserve energy while avoiding crap reviews by ensuring guests enjoy themselves without compromising quality.  But it’s clear to see that the healthy market for clean bumholes hasn’t been fully penetrated yet.

Departing language teacher declares – “It’s up to the locals now”

Ralph-Smith says hell miss the joy of seeing the students putting in an effort to improve their English skills.

The end of the Japanese school year usually brings change, and this year is no different.  But few people could have predicted the huge change in the zeitgeist this year, with the recent decision of well-known English teacher Carter Ralph-Smith to finally go back to his hometown in Australia.

As a man who has spent more time in Japan than he cares to remember, the 46 year old Aussie has generally been regarded as a lifer, a person with very little to offer in any area outside of teaching his native language in Japan.  The recent death of a childless family member, however, has meant that Ralph-Smith now has the means to make a triumphant return home.  

Ralph-Smith says hell miss the joy of seeing graduating students being congratulated by their proud parents.

“I’ve done my part to improve the level of conversational English in Japan,” said the Wodonga native.  “It’s up to the Japanese themselves now… and maybe the Filipina who will replace me.  We are seeing a de-Westernization taking place, but the Japanization of Eikaiwa is what is required now.  The locals are in the best position to decide the right path out of this katakana-rooted mess.  I mean, have you ever watched an AKB48 election on tv?  They say every bloody number in that long, annoying, warped way.  Jesus bloody Christ!  If these people aren’t overcomplicating everything by observing every grammar rule, they’re buggering it up with that weird pronunciation.

According to Ralph-Smith, a Japanization of Eikawa would involve not only the strengthening of the teaching force of the Japanese in numbers, equipment, leadership and teaching skills, but also the extension of the conversational program [i.e. DVDs and games to families] throughout Japan.  “Family-focus, the second component, presents the real challenge,” explained the veteran instructor.  “It is benevolent government action in areas where the government should always be benevolently active which is critical.  It shouldn’t just involve piles of cash going to their mates to produce inferior material that doesn’t invigorate anyone.  The government should be doing what is necessary if Japanization is to work.”

Ralph-Smith says that this is the future of English study in Japan; just one local teacher, but with perhaps a little less kanji on the blackboard.

Ralph-Smith went on to suggest that a revolution was required to deal with the status quo.  “English conversational development simply cannot wait a year for old bureaucrats to decide to take some new step and take a more conservative position.  These issues must not be placed, for all practical purposes, in the hands of the current bureaucracy, which does not want to resolve them and is unable to do so, since it is unable to soberly assess the situation.  As things stand at the moment, there is an over-reliance on Americans with yellow-fever and irresponsible Australian backpackers.

Ralph-Smith also took the opportunity to deal with rumours around the reason for his return home.  “What the hell are people talking about an inheritance for?  Yes, there has been a transfer of a certain amount of funds which will come in very handy, but that has had no bearing on this decision.  I just feel, and I think that most instructors feel, that the time has come to get out of Japan.”

Ralph-Smith’s Hub loyalty card is expected to remain in Japan, with a handing-over ceremony due to take place the night before his flight home.

Kanto City Office Worker bewildered by mixed-race families

Despite having worked in the Births Registration Section at Kakeochi City Office for sixteen years, and despite Kakeochi City having more foreigners than dogs within its boundaries, Katsurei Uketa still struggles with the concept of a family featuring a non-Japanese member.

City employees would feel shame if a new family were ever to leave this place smiling.

“Huh… The baby’s name is Natsumi… Parker… !?  And… she’s Japanese…!?” exclaimed the overweight and unfashionably unshaven 38 year old lifetime public servant.  As he took the forms from the beaming parents, Uketa proceeded to stare at them in the manner of a North Korean reading a book which shows Japan in a positive light.

Taking utmost care not to betray the fact that he serves people in exactly the same situation at least once a week, and that the procedure ought to be straight-forward with a minimum of fuss, Uketa’s only utterance for the next ten minutes is a laboured “Hmm…” as he handles the papers much in the way of a detective sifting through delicate yet incriminating evidence, his only reaction being to tilt his head every minute or so.

Failing to find even the smallest error that would allow him to unempathetically send the family away from his desk, Uketa humourlessly completes the paperwork and then abruptly directs the young family to another section of the office where they will be required to do just about everything they’d just done all over again.

I’d forgotten to get a photograph of Uketa serving a happy family, so I desperately grabbed a quick snap of him murdering a hamburger.

It’s a scene that occurs regularly at the city office, and precious westerners love retelling embellished versions of their encounters with friends at izakaya and British-themed chain pubs. But the experience from the other side of the counter is rarely heard, or even considered. Taking this gap in information on board, I decided to sit down with Uketa last week to shed some light on the matter.

“Look, I’m just doing my job to the best of my ability, and if that’s not good enough for some entitled westerners then they need to adjust their standards,” he explained.  “Half of these Europeans and Yanks are leftie do-gooders anyway.  I’m just giving them a taste of what life would have been like in the Soviet Bloc every single day.  Imagine being served by someone like me for every conceivable transaction; at the bakery, the butcher, and the izakaya.”

In addition to the slow service, applicants are directed to purchase revenue stamps from this snack stand located across the road from the city office.

While getting stuck into his barely-earned lunch, Uketa revealed that there is an international side to his actions, which can be seen when he stares at a form put before him silently for two minutes.  The poker face is, in fact, an instinctive reaction to any receipt of a formal document.  “I was trained by a stone-faced, elderly woman from the DMV in Ohio,” he says between highly off-putting chomps on a burger in the city hall lunch room. “My key takeaway from the course was to never act assertively or show an inch of initiative to help a client.  Staring blankly at a form for what seems like hours is all part of my training.”

The pachinko-loving Saitama native also carefully laid out the perplexities he often has to deal with. “I can’t imagine how these people in international relationships meet, how they court, and how they live together. What happens in the house when the Japanese woman cooks dinner?  Can he eat Japanese food?  Can he use chopsticks?  Can he respond appropriately when his sexless mother-in-law tries to pleasure him at the kotatsu

The strain shows on the face of the father in this mixed-race family after another encounter with local bureaucracy

“I’ve even heard about one Australian guy who was just into having regular naked sex with his wife,” continued Uketa who was now embracing the opportunity to let it all out. “He wasn’t using any ropes or uniforms, and he was finishing inside her rather than on her face or breasts. Umm… What happened to doing as the Romans do when in Rome!? That guy sounded like some kind of imperial pre-invasion plant.

“And, what about the relationships when the man is Japanese?  It must be hard for him using a knife and fork all the time and dealing with all those cultural differences. What about when they have sex? I guess he has to learn tag questions to confirm that she likes what he is doing to her every 30 seconds. What should he do when the woman gets into crystals and essential oils? It all seems like an enormously stressful way to live.”




Adventurous, yet poor, foodie treats herself to a KFC dinner matched with Asahi’s 16 Tea

“It was a meal that seemed to be calling out to me.  How can you say no to eleven secret herbs and spices which are washed down by tea featuring a blend of sixteen kinds of leaves and fruity goodies?” asks 27 year old Liz Austin as she describes her latest foray into exotic dining.

“Plenty of people tell me that deep-fried chicken is far from healthy, but I like to think that the herbs must count for something.  I mean, it would be super unhealthy if it didn’t have any herbs, right?” she ponders.  “As for the Asahi tea, I thought that my tastebuds were at risk of being overwhelmed by the blend of sixteen carefully selected natural ingredients.  I won’t lie; I was nervous before I drank it.  My senses aren’t as refined as those of the Japanese, so I wasn’t sure if I could handle such a complex beverage.”

Without the oriental conditioning behind her, Austin took a step into the unknown.  So, was it a step too far?

“Absolutely not!  I may not have been the first westerner to try this particular type of meal, but I believe that I’m the first to get loads of online karma for reporting on it.  I gave it a five-star rating, and I would urge all of your readers to try this amazing taste sensation.  People shouldn’t be afraid to try this kind of thing either.  And they should do it soon too, before major corporation shrinkflation hits the variety of herbs and minerals that they offer.”

Not everyone has responded positively to Austin’s accomplishment. So far one lone expert voice has challenged her decision.  “This is what we call a choc des goûts, a clash of tastes,” explained local chicken connoisseur Shitao Hawase. “Let’s look at the facts; chicken seasoned with eleven herbs and spices combined with a blend of sixteen varieties of natural goodness!?  My goodness! In this case, she has done her palate a disservice, and I fear that it’ll become a trend among impressionable young people.”

Austin is taking such feedback in her stride, perhaps weighed down by other matters. Despite the apparent success of the KFC & Asahi tea combination, the dispatch ALT from Alberta is finding that there can be an emotional trough between big moments.“To be honest, I’m a little depressed now, like that European guy who walked along the rope between the World Trade Centre buildings, or like that teenager who Demi Moore kissed as a birthday present.  Can anything top what I’ve just done!?”

Spanish Festival fan Atama Denbu responds to readers’ questions

Our January article (“Spanish Culture Enthusiast’s festival gets rained on”) has has resulted in a huge response from concerned readers, not only in Japan, but from many places overseas too.  Atama Denbu has kindly agreed to sit down to answer just a few of the questions about himself, his wife Kao, and their relationship that have been sent since the article was posted.  So, let the informal Q&A session begin…

Dily Dally:  Have you ever considered doing Spanish cosplay in the bedroom to reignite your relationship with Kao?  

AD:  Umm… This is not a good idea.  Kao isn’t really a fan of anything foreign.  She’s one of those Japanese people who goes overseas and refers to the local people as gaijin.  When we went to Melbourne last year she moped around on the first day complaining that there was nowhere to eat soba, which she rarely eats in Japan.  What else does she do…?  Oh, yes – she’s the type that will mention that it’s great to get back to Japan, the best country in the world, when we’re on the flight home from a place like Australia, Tahiti, or Fiji.  Quite frankly, she’s happy living in a concrete block apartment building, watching panel shows, and munching on rice snacks.

Kylie Webster:  Both you and Kao tried to pick up with the intention of getting action at the festival.  I guess that means you have a mutually-agreed open relationship?  Is that right?

AD:  This is where things get awkward.  I was hoping not to get this kind of question.  I’m all for openness and honesty though, so I’ll just say that neither of us have officially had suspicions, or confirmed or denied anything.  We certainly haven’t had a deep discussion over these kinds of things.  I don’t know what she’s doing, and she doesn’t know what I’m doing.  Sometimes I’m late home and sometimes she’s late home.  That’s just the way it is.  Don’t you wish you could have a relationship like ours?

Lauren Gibson:  Have you stopped, just for a moment, to consider that maybe, just maybe, you might be doing a little cultural appropriating with this Spanish obsession of yours?

AD:  Are you insane?  Do you want me to start talking about Davie Bowie and Kiss with their geisha-inspired make up?  That would be pathetic, because you and your question are pathetic.  For whom the bell tolls?  Hopefully, it tolls for thee.

Mario Santostefano:  What’s with the attraction to Spanish culture and flamenco dancing?

AD:  Like many Japanese people, I was born with a flat ass.  My ass is particularly flat and it’s embarrassing because there’s so much unfilled rear space when I step out in trousers.  I heard that dancing was one way to beef up the buttocks which led me to a dance studio run by a woman who had spent a lot of time in Spain.  As a result, I just kind of fell into flamenco dancing.  If you’ve seen the movie “Shall We Dance?”, you’ll get an idea of what it was like for me.  I had no idea what I was doing at first; I had two left feet.  Many years and hours and hours of practice later, you can see me on stage coming fourth in the flamenco dance contest and having women throw themselves at me.  Iberian pork is an extension of this too.  I believe that all pork products are good for adding meat to the bone.  I like to think that these days I have a rather attractive set of buns thanks to the dancing and the consumption of pork.

Stavros Georgiades:  Do you get excited about the other culture festivals?  If so, have you ever had any “success” at those other festivals?

AD:  I’m going to be honest with you.  Yes – I used to go to all the festivals.  Yes – I enthusiastically got into the spirit of each one.  Yes – I tried to fraternise with various women at these events.  But… I was let down… by an Englishwoman.  She said that she had attended school with one of the Spice Girls and told me what she was really like.   I was smitten and she became my everything.  But, she had lied.  She had told me the name of the football team that her Spice Girl buddy supported, but in a photo that Spice Girl is wearing a different team’s shirt.  When I confronted the woman I loved with the photo, she made up a lie to cover up her original lie.  Our relationship had lost its foundations, and that was that.  She used to make dinner for me, but she would boil everything for far too long.  It was like she was being spiteful, but she insisted that it was the traditional English way.  Surely that can’t be true, though, can it?  Bad things happened at other festivals too.  I got hurt.  This all led to me realising that there had only ever been one culture festival to which I belonged, and that was the Itali- oops, sorry – the Spanish one.  

Vernon Grant:  How’s the state of Kao’s dildo these days?

AD:  The old one had to be thrown out due to the mechanical problems that were mentioned in the previous article.  That meant that for Christmas I bought a top-of-the-line model from Germany for her, which is working out really, really well.  I guess that’s one foreign thing that Kao does like.  It throbs, it pulsates, and it whirrs.  It’s put a smile on Kao’s face. 

Fred Clifford:  As a man who is awkward with women, what are my chances of getting a girlfriend at a Latin dancing nite in Roppongi? My mother told me it’s 15 women to every man.  Are they willing to date a Japanese man or only Spanish speakers who are foreign?

AD:  Every man has a chance in Roppongi… as long as you can dance.  You’ve got to move with a woman, chant with her, and if you’re good she’ll take you home with her.  Be careful not to be too presumptuous though; she will not necessarily be trying to seduce you, sometimes she’ll just be looking to dance the night away.

Hector Rimington:  Where do you stand on the great chorizo debate?  Which side are you on?

AD:  Politically, I try not to subscribe to any of the isms.  Likewise, with chorizo, I simply choose whatever will suit the occasion.  You won’t find me on the internet calling someone an asshole just because they prefer their pork sausage diced rather than ground, or vice-versa.  Oh, I just worked some Latin into my answer.

Daphne Van Olsen:  Why don’t you just move to Spain?  If you like it that much, what’s holding you back?

AD:  It would be nice, but I don’t know if my skills are required in Spain.  Here in Japan I perform a vital role in which I plan the reinforcement of river banks using an abundance of concrete.  If there’s a place for me in Spain, perhaps a Japan Wanko reader could let me know.

Sally Elliot:  I feel sorry for you after reading about how Kao treated you so badly at the festival.  Does she usually behave that way?

AD:  I wouldn’t say that she usually behaves that way.  It’s basically only when I’m trying to enjoy myself. 

And that’s where we’ll end our Q&A session with Atama.  A big thanks to everyone for your questions. 

Spanish Culture Enthusiast’s festival gets rained on

“I’m half Spanish and half Japanese, so when I see a sausage I don’t know whether to eat it or shove it up my jacksie.” 

It’s a tired old one-liner that gets reworked into every mixed-race permutation, but it kind of summed up Atama Denbu’s feelings towards the end of the recent Spanish Festival in Yoyogi Park.  For 44 year old Denbu, the festival is the highlight of the year, however, while the Nagano-based civil engineer gets into the Spanish spirit of things, his wife Kao tends to throw muchos shade on his passion.

The bolero and cummerbund always guarantee a lot of attention from the ladies.

“Last year Kao stayed home.  She just wasn’t interested in getting on the train and heading into central Tokyo,” explained Denbu when I interviewed him towards the end of the festival.  “She said that she was boycotting the event because of bullfighting.  In the past she’s boycotted in solidarity with Catalan separatists.  All nonsense, of course.  She just stays home and watches boy band DVDs while munching on rice snacks all day.  This year she decided to come and spoil the day for me.  I think it’s because her dildo stopped pulsating.  It’s more than just a battery issue, so she’s been in a deep funk over it.”

Upon arriving at Harajuku Station, Denbu slipped into the disabled toilets and spruced himself up.  Fifteen minutes later he stepped out looking like a stylish matador, turning heads as he made his way to the festival site.  But it was during this walk that Kao offered her first upper-cut of the day.  “You’d wet your pants if a cow came within a few meters of you.  Bullfight!?  More like Bullshitter, or even Pants-Shitter!”  It was an observation that Denbu didn’t deserve, but the harder body blows were yet to come.

Casually dressed men found themselves slightly embarrassed to be in the vicinity of a finely attired brewer.

Chatting to the affable Spanish Cultural Attache, Denbu turned grey as Kao gushed that they were looking forward to “visiting Lisbon and Porto on next year’s trip to Europe.”  Still, Denbu was determined to get some separation from his wife and enjoy his big day out.  It wasn’t easy though as Kao did a good job of tagging along and ruining any interaction that her husband had.  Photographs, for example, were bombed without fail, and poor Denbu found himself cock-blocked whenever a hot, young woman began complimenting him on his clothes.   A twenty year old student stroking Denbu’s bolero, found her hand being slapped away with the warning, “Hey!  He’s my husband, and he’d probably just disappoint you anyway.”

Shutting his wife up became a priority for Denbu, so he seized the initiative and stopped by the chorizo stand to buy some lunch with the assumption that Kao would be too busy stuffing her face to embarrass him.  It wasn’t to be though, as she slowly made her way through her rectangular styrofoam plate of sausages, making sure to fellate every single one audibly in front of as many foreign men as possible.  “I love the good stuff from overseas,” she explained to one of the few good looking Mediterranean men in attendance.  “It’s why I’ve come here today.”  

The chorizo stand had a queue in front of it all day, as the punters couldn’t get enough of the succulent fare.

Emotions can run high at these Yoyogi Park festivals.  Some men will humiliate themselves as they walk around with the assumption that all the Japanese women are only there because they hunger for the men from the host country.  Indeed, the Jamaican Festival and the Brazilian Festival are huge sausage parties due to expectations of loads of horny women getting along for a day of hooking up.  Tensions usually hit extreme with so many egotistical men peacocking into one another’s spaces.  

Some women will also bring shame on their families by taking up offers of obligation-free sex in barely concealed nooks and crannies, which are well known to perverts and opportunistic cameramen. The dearth of handsome Spanish men in Tokyo, however, went a long way to cooling the sexual energy at this festival.  Horny Spanish weaboos should bear in mind that this is definitely not a recommendation that they make their way to Tokyo to fill the void.   Seriously; stay where you are.

The notorious Japan Cured Ham Association and their shameless lobbyists once again tried to muscle in on the event, but with limited success this time.

If there was any peak in sexual activity at this particular festival, it was probably immediately after the flamenco dance contest which took place mid-afternoon.  Denbu placed a credible fourth, which put him as hot property amongst the impressed ladies in the crowd.  The lie that he had made (“One of my grandmothers was born in Valencia.”) during the post-dance interview only added to his high popularity rating.   Bumping into the earlier bolero stroker, Denbu believed that he was on a winner. 

With his wife nowhere in sight, he hurriedly make his way to one of the passion pits behind the stage, only to find his wife there enjoying a moment of intimacy with the third place getter.   It was a scene that the still euphoric Denbu didn’t deserve to encounter.  With both of them unable to deny their respective situations, the husband and wife combo sheepishly moved back to the main event, leaving the third place getter and the bolero stroker the opportunity to get acquainted.

Dirty tricks; These tasty looking sandwiches were not sold out. Instead, rival vendors had placed black Xs over popular menu items to hinder sales.

It was then that I was able to sit down with Denbu for a couple of glasses of sangria.  Although no longer in a fiesta mood, Denbu was nice enough to share his thoughts of the festival, and his experience.  “I wouldn’t say that this has been the best Spanish Festival that I’ve attended, but it’s certainly not the worst.  That was in 2018 when the Japan Cured Ham Association hired macho guys in boleros with pert buttocks to promote their products. Kao wouldn’t have laughed at them. Apparently they blew their marketing budget with that stunt and haven’t tried doing it since.

“I’m not sure what we’ll say to each other on the train home, to be honest.  She’s been in a sour mood all day, and I ruined the one bright moment that she had.  He (the third place getter) was a handsome guy.  Kao did well getting some fleeting action with him.  But, we are a married couple and, as such, we ought to try to enjoy these events together.  Will we come here together next year?  Well, Andalusian horses couldn’t drag me away from this festival. Flamenco dancing is my life. It’s too early to say if Kao will come again but, let’s face it, we’d definitely have to establish some ground rules before that happens.”